Are You a Nice Guy or a Kind Man?
Take this quiz to evaluate where you stand and how you can grow.
1. When you do something nice for someone, how do you feel if they don’t acknowledge it?
A) Frustrated or resentful—they should at least say thank you.
B) A little disappointed but understanding.
C) Indifferent—I helped because I wanted to, not for recognition.
2. How do you typically handle rejection?
A) I feel like it’s unfair and that I must have done something wrong.
B) It stings, but I try to move on.
C) I accept it without taking it personally.
3. When talking to others, do you often explain things in great detail, even when it’s unnecessary?
A) Yes, I want to make sure they see that I know what I’m talking about.
B) Sometimes, but only when I think it’s helpful.
C) No, I try to engage in balanced conversations.
4. Do you ever feel like your kindness should be rewarded in relationships or friendships?
A) Yes, I believe that being a good person should lead to reciprocation.
B) Sometimes, but I recognize that people don’t owe me anything.
C) No, I give without expecting something in return.
5. How comfortable are you with setting boundaries?
A) Not very—I often say yes even when I don’t want to.
B) It’s tough, but I’m working on it.
C) Very comfortable—I respect my limits and others do too.
6. Why do you do nice things for others?
A) Because I hope it will make them like or appreciate me more.
B) Because I want to be helpful, though I sometimes hope for appreciation.
C) Because it aligns with my values, regardless of what others think.
7. How do you react when someone disagrees with you?
A) I feel the need to explain why I’m right or try to convince them.
B) I sometimes feel defensive but try to listen.
C) I welcome different opinions and don’t take it personally.
Results
🔹 Mostly A’s – The Nice Guy Trap
You may have some Nice Guy tendencies. While your intentions are good, you might be seeking validation through your actions. Focus on setting boundaries, being kind without expectation, and finding confidence in yourself rather than external approval.
🔹 Mostly B’s – In Transition
You’re aware of some Nice Guy habits but are working on growing into a more secure and self-assured person. Keep refining your ability to give freely, set boundaries, and handle rejection with confidence.
🔹 Mostly C’s – The Kind Man
You embody emotional security and genuine kindness. You give without expecting, maintain strong boundaries, and respect yourself and others. Keep leading with integrity and self-assurance.
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